tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-389217180689999852.post1859726189289233096..comments2023-07-26T16:18:53.834+03:00Comments on Serenity in Chaos: Why Not Adopt?Amelhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16792921371964029469noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-389217180689999852.post-55944923440114406522010-10-22T23:47:38.403+03:002010-10-22T23:47:38.403+03:00Sas: Yeah, with this IF journey it seems that ther...Sas: Yeah, with this IF journey it seems that there are so many blocked doors - or it seems like we're ramming into walls when it comes to so many things we have to consider to get babies...whether it's about money or other things...Amelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16792921371964029469noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-389217180689999852.post-27116883446692654002010-10-21T23:35:13.832+03:002010-10-21T23:35:13.832+03:00oh girl. i'm so familiar with what you are say...oh girl. i'm so familiar with what you are saying. we are looking at local adoption now but the chances are slim because the govt takes good care of babies and moms here... plus there is also sadly a high abortion rate here too, so overall the babies up for adoption are very very few. <br /><br />we also have taken note of the age restrictions for international adoption. we have a bit of time left... but for us the cost financially is so high. <br /><br />but i so know what you mean! well-meaning people talk about adoption like it is an easy option to creating an instant family. but they don't always know the difficult reality of it too.Sashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00659831798135909108noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-389217180689999852.post-63379509591451691312010-08-26T10:31:13.086+03:002010-08-26T10:31:13.086+03:00Phoebe: EXACTLY!!! There are so many things to thi...Phoebe: EXACTLY!!! There are so many things to think about and yet even after considering all the options and choosing one of them, you'll never know what happens at the end of it - it might not work out well. THANK YOU for your kind words. Considering our options, having our own kids seems to be "the easiest way out" ---> pun intended he he he...Amelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16792921371964029469noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-389217180689999852.post-14530356510945717902010-08-26T02:21:08.928+03:002010-08-26T02:21:08.928+03:00I think that the toughest thing about all of this ...I think that the toughest thing about all of this infertility thing is that so much stuff is out of our hands. I really hope that some day you are able to have a child of your own!Phoebe Wildehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09241286359665188905noreply@blogger.com