tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-389217180689999852.post6334510552721835347..comments2023-07-26T16:18:53.834+03:00Comments on Serenity in Chaos: Tears Without PainAmelhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16792921371964029469noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-389217180689999852.post-74015948201007843742015-02-12T20:23:58.563+02:002015-02-12T20:23:58.563+02:00I loved reading this.
It has taken me a long time ...I loved reading this.<br />It has taken me a long time to simply say, no we don't have kids.<br />I use to always say, we don't have kids, we have two cats....I finally decided that it seemed dismissive on my part for myself. Now I am looking at owning it and being strong.<br />You did perfect! I'm looking forward to seeing the article too!<br />** applause **The Barrenesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09720146541893738473noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-389217180689999852.post-10493061814159554272015-02-12T11:46:05.186+02:002015-02-12T11:46:05.186+02:00Thanks for the confirmation that I'm going to ...Thanks for the confirmation that I'm going to the right direction, Mali. :-) Ah, you want to see the article? I'll post it later in another post then...but yeah, the matter-of-fact tone does help. :-) <br /><br />Actually I've received only positive feedback from my customers, but it unnerved me that they had read the article before I did (we don't subscribe to the newspaper so waited until that week's Saturday to read MIL's copy) whereas I had no idea what it was about. It was unnerving to have someone write an article specifically on yourself (as opposed to the thought of having a reporter write an article on a few/more people). Amelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16792921371964029469noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-389217180689999852.post-48883595156540227232015-02-12T05:45:18.060+02:002015-02-12T05:45:18.060+02:00I'm glad you had such a lovely moment, without...I'm glad you had such a lovely moment, without pain or fear or grief. I've had those - it is very liberating to feel you can be moved by something because it is moving, not because we are grieving for ourselves. <br /><br />I kinda wish I could see that article! And I'm sorry you had to brace yourself against being judged. I think so often though, we brace ourselves against the worst case scenario, and the worst case scenario rarely happens. I know I do that. I hope that this too was liberating, simply in the fact that your status (a married couple) was mentioned in a matter-of-fact manner, and I hope it leads to only positive responses.Malihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03928262526502319303noreply@blogger.com