tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-389217180689999852.post4181976797481426294..comments2023-07-26T16:18:53.834+03:00Comments on Serenity in Chaos: The Positive vs The NegativeAmelhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16792921371964029469noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-389217180689999852.post-11662769001757047392013-09-17T11:56:59.868+03:002013-09-17T11:56:59.868+03:00Oh yeah, you have a therapist's POV, so no won...Oh yeah, you have a therapist's POV, so no wonder you'd know more about this stuff. THANK YOU for sharing your POV as well. I was the opposite of you - used to be able to hold grudge easily, then I learnt to be positive, and then when IF came over me...WHACK...had to relearn the whole thing all over again in different degrees he he...Amelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16792921371964029469noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-389217180689999852.post-16153884678862114272013-09-16T04:00:27.657+03:002013-09-16T04:00:27.657+03:00Yup, you're right, Amel.
I notice that, eve...Yup, you're right, Amel. <br /><br />I notice that, even more when I ask clients to do a timeline, they tend to remember negative events vividly, compared to positive events (very little)- even with friends. I used to live day-to-day postivitely, before surgery, and then I found myself drowning in negativity- took a LONG time before I relearned to appreciate simple days, even days that had no positive or negative (those days are better than negative ones when one think about it). <br />It IS easier to find negativity here and there- thanks for the article- excellent advice! Wolfershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12937704236275533865noreply@blogger.com